There is nothing worse than being single and feeling like everyone around you has found their perfect match. It seems like no matter what it is to do, you can never manifest the real love you are looking for. Trust me. I get it. I have been in your shoes before. There is nothing more lonely than being the single person in a group of couples or spending holidays alone with no significant other. Well, worry no more. Those days are over. Today I’m going to explain precisely what you can do to manifest love with a specific person.
Step 1.
The first step is to start focusing on what you want instead of what you don’t want. Your mind is a powerful tool, and if you harp on negativity, you will receive negativity. The only way things will get better for you is to change your attitude. You need to start thinking about what you want out of a relationship instead of what you don’t want. If you have been cheated on in the past or have had a relationship full of arguments, you need to pretend like they never existed. Delete these memories from your mind.
Once you start to focus on what you truly want out of a relationship, you will receive those needs in return. Remember, if you begin hyper-focusing on what you don’t want, you will end up back in a bad relationship.
Step 2.
You must know the type of relationship you want to be in. People will often go into relationships with no real idea of what type of relationship they want it to be. Do you want a relationship where you have to hide some of your interests out of embarrassment? Do you want to be as open as possible with your partner? Do you want to be in a relationship where you and your partner both respect each other? Do not sell yourself short, be completely honest, and do not think you are being too picky. This is your life, and to genuinely manifest the love you are looking for, you have to be honest with both yourself and the universe.
These are all things you need to know to manifest the kind of loving relationship you are looking for.
One of the best ways to help manifest the type of relationship you want is to focus on what you want as you drift off to bed or keep a journal of what you are looking for. Even if you write down one line a day, you are putting the positive energy out in the world that is needed to manifest the type of love you are looking for.
Step 3.
In order to manifest love with a specific person, you first need to learn how to love yourself. If you struggle with this, don’t worry you are not alone. Many people find it to hard to learn to love themselves, but you should! You are not your past and any of your problems do not define you as a person.
One of the best ways to put yourself in the mindset to start loving yourself is to write down one thing you like about yourself each day. By the end of a week, you can see 7 things you love about yourself. Read this list every day, and you slowly start to build your self-confidence and self-love.
The easier it becomes for you to love yourself, the easier it will be for you to manifest the love you are looking for.
Step 4. Be The Person You Want To Attract
One of the biggest mistakes people make when they are trying to manifest love with a specific person is staying their same old self. You need to become what you want in the person you are trying to attract in order to attract that person. I’m not telling you to change who are you are entirely as a person, but you need to make some adjustments.
This can be a struggle for people because it can often come off as forced, and it won’t attract the right person. One of the best ways to go about this to simply start as a blank canvas. Go after and rediscover yourself, maybe try a new hobby, or do something you wouldn’t normally do. This is going to revitalize your spirit and help give you a new outlook on life.
Manifesting love with a specific person takes work. You can’t just sit around thinking they will magically appear in your life. Once you start to make these changes and become the person you want to attract, that person will appear in your life.
Step 5.
Once you are aware of the type of person you are trying to manifest, you need to trick your mind into thinking you already have the feeling that person would give you. I’m not saying you should start pretending you have an imaginary partner, but what I am saying is try to carry yourself as if you are receiving the love you have been looking for. If you want to manifest this person in your life, then you need to surround yourself with the energy that they are already there.
Think about how good you would feel if you had the perfect partner. You would have a bit of pep to your step, you would wake up feeling great, and you would, in general, be in a much better mood. Well, people are attracted to this, and these good vibes you are putting off allow people to enter into your life.
If you let these feelings take over, then you are on the path to manifesting love with the specific person you are looking for.
Step 6.
Finally, stop holding yourself back with negativity. This is a problem many people have in their lives, but the truth is, negative thoughts are only going to hold you back. You need to abandon all preconceived ideas that you are not worthy of the love you are looking for or thinking there is no way I can actually manifest love with a specific person. The truth is you can, and you have to get out of your own way in order to do it.
So how can you get out your own way and stop this circle thinking pattern of negative thoughts? Well, start writing them down. Write down all of the negative thoughts you have on why you think you cant manifest love with a person. Now, change all those reasons from reasons you cant to reasons you can. For example, if you write down “I don’t deserve love”, I want you to write, “I do deserve to be loved, and I have a lot to offer in a relationship.” Start changing the way you think. Read this list every day or as often you need.
Once you stop letting your negative thoughts or beliefs about yourself hold you back, you can only grow.
Closing Thoughts
Manifesting love with a specific person is entirely possible. It’s not going to be an overnight success, and it will take a bit of work on your end, but you can do it! Believe in yourself, love yourself, and surround yourself with good energy. Once you have done all of these things, the universe will begin to help you manifest love with the specific person you are looking for.
