If you’re looking for love, we put together 10 steps that you can take to manifest your soulmate. Love comes to those who are prepared, and by taking steps to actively determine who you want to be with, and what that relationship would look like, you will increase your chances of success in your love life.
What Does Manifesting Mean?
If you’re new to the concept of manifestation, it’s actually quite simple. You can create your own reality by using your thoughts and beliefs to guide you towards where you want to be. When your dominant thoughts are positive and you spend time actively thinking about what you are looking for, you are more likely to achieve your desired outcomes.
1. Heal yourself and forget previous bad relationships
Ensuring that you are free from any emotional baggage from previous relationships goes a long way in manifesting your true love. If you are not fully emotionally available and free, getting into a new relationship with the correct person will be much harder to achieve.
Sometimes, previous relationships leave a bad taste in our mouths and condition us to think all future relationships will be similar. The fact that a previous relationship did not work out does not say anything bad about you as a person. It just means that you put yourself out there and you did not find the person who was right for you.
By working on yourself and shedding any emotional baggage left over from a previous relationship, you are presenting yourself at your best, and making room for new love to form.
2. Love yourself first and foremost
Similar to our first point, being comfortable and “in love” with yourself goes a long way towards others feeling the same way. By loving yourself, you create positive energy and vibrations that will attract others. If you are happy, it will be easy for others to sense this and they will be interested in you.
This step can be hard, but it is one of the key elements in manifesting the person that you would like to be with forever. In addition to presenting yourself in a more positive way, being yourself and loving yourself means that you will enter into a new relationship being 100% unapologetically you.
3. Don’t stress out about being single
Being single is not a bad thing and should not be seen as one. Being single allows you to have time to work on yourself and develop your skills and interests. You can do whatever you’d like, so do things you enjoy! Anyone who is using their time being single productively to better themselves has a much better chance of being in the right space when true love finds its way to them.
If you are constantly rushing into new relationships, you won’t have time to focus on being the best version of yourself.
4. Don’t settle for anyone
If you are working on manifesting your soulmate and are at the point of putting yourself out there to see who might be the one, it’s important to keep a level head and not settle for someone. Your soulmate is someone who should love you for you, and you should love them for them. If this feeling is not mutual, and there are large disagreements, don’t settle. You’ll find the right person with time and you will thank yourself once you do.
5. Write down or think hard about your ideal relationship
In order to find the one, you need to know what the one looks like to you so that you can identify them when the time comes. Take some time out and write down a list of ideal qualities and attributes that you are looking for in a relationship. Focus on how they would make you feel, and what you’d like to do together.
Coming into a new relationship with these goals ironed out will put you on the right track to find your soulmate.
6. Spend time with and be happy for your friends who have found love
This one can be especially difficult if you are having trouble finding your soulmate. Being around friends who are lovey-dovey with each other might be difficult, but it allows you to experience the love you’re looking to find indirectly. Be happy for them, support them, and you never know where these experiences will take you or who you will meet because of your newfound experience with love.
7. Figure out what you need to do!
If you have things nagging at you in the back of your mind, it will be very hard to be completely open with your soulmate once you’ve found them. Take some time out while you’re single to make a list of what you feel you need to do before you get into a serious relationship. Cleaning your house or increasing your self-care will pay dividends.
8. Be open and available
You just never know where your soulmate may be. They might live next door or they might be someone you’ve known for a while. Be open to new experiences with people and don’t shut the door in anyone’s face. Even if your experiences prove not to be what you thought they were, you will gain life experience and learn lessons you can use to better yourself.
9. Be present in your relationships
When you are dating someone, give it your all. You’ll never know what could have been if you don’t try your hardest and give your all. Not being as present as possible in any relationship you are in will lead to regret and intrusive thoughts for future relationships.
10. Raise your vibration
By being present, fully committed, and happy with yourself, you will raise your vibration which will help summon your soulmate. The universe knows when your vibration is low, and tends to present you with similar potential mates. Having a high vibration is key to meeting others on the same wavelength.