If you’re looking for love, we put together 10 steps that you can take to manifest your soulmate. Love comes to those who are prepared, and by taking steps to actively determine who you want to be with and what that relationship would look like, you will increase your chances of success in your love life.

What Does Manifesting Mean?

If you’re new to the concept of manifestation, it’s actually quite simple. You can create your reality by using your thoughts and beliefs to guide you towards where you want to be. When your dominant thoughts are positive, and you spend time actively thinking about what you are looking for, you are more likely to achieve your desired outcomes.

1. Heal yourself and forget previous bad relationships

Ensuring that you are free from any emotional baggage from previous relationships goes a long way in manifesting your true love. If you are not fully emotionally available and accessible, getting into a new relationship with the correct person will be much harder to achieve.

Sometimes, previous relationships leave a bad taste in our mouths and condition us to think all future relationships will be similar. The fact that a prior relationship did not work out does not say anything wrong about you as a person. It just means that you put yourself out there and you did not find the person who was right for you.

By working on yourself and shedding any emotional baggage from a previous relationship, you are presenting yourself at your best and making room for new love to form.

2. Love yourself first and foremost

Similar to our first point, being comfortable and “in love” with yourself goes a long way toward others feeling the same way. By loving yourself, you create positive energy and vibrations that will attract others. If you are happy, it will be easy for others to sense this, and they will be interested in you.

This step can be challenging, but it is one of the key elements in manifesting the person that you would like to be with forever. In addition to presenting yourself more positively, being yourself and loving yourself means that you will enter into a new relationship with being 100% unapologetically you.

3. Don’t stress out about being single

Being single is not a bad thing and should not be seen as one. Being single allows you to have time to work on yourself and develop your skills and interests. You can do whatever you’d like, so do things you enjoy! Anyone who is using their time being single productively to better themselves has a much better chance of being in a suitable space when true love finds its way to them.

If you are constantly rushing into new relationships, you won’t have time to focus on being the best version of yourself.

Manifesting Your Soulmate

4. Don’t settle for anyone

If you are working on manifesting your soulmate and are at the point of putting yourself out there to see who might be the one, it’s essential to keep a level head and not settle for someone. Your soulmate is someone who should love you for you, and you should love them for them. If this feeling is not mutual, and there are significant disagreements, don’t settle. You’ll find the right person with time, and you will thank yourself once you do.

5. Write down or think hard about your ideal relationship

In order to find the one, you need to know what the one looks like to you so that you can identify them when the time comes. Take some time out and write down a list of ideal qualities and attributes that you are looking for in a relationship. Focus on how they would make you feel and what you’d like to do together.

Coming into a new relationship with these goals in mind will put you on the right track to finding your soulmate.

6. Spend time with and be happy for your friends who have found love

This one can be tough if you are still looking for your soulmate. Being around friends who are lovey-dovey with each other might be difficult, but it allows you to experience the love you’re looking to find indirectly. Be happy for them, support them, and you never know where these experiences will take you or who you will meet because of your newfound expertise with love.

7. Figure out what you need to do!

If you have things nagging at you in the back of your mind, it will be tough to be completely open with your soulmate once you’ve found them. Take some time out while you’re single to make a list of what you feel you need to do before you get into a serious relationship. Cleaning your house or increasing your self-care will pay dividends.

8. Be open and available

You just never know where your soulmate may be. They might live next door, or they might be someone you’ve known for a while. Be open to new experiences with people, and don’t shut the door in anyone’s face. Even if your experiences prove not to be what you thought they were, you will gain life experience and learn lessons you can use to better yourself.

9. Be present in your relationships

When you are dating someone, give it your all. You’ll never know what could have been if you don’t try your hardest and give your all. Not being as present as possible in any relationship will lead to regret and intrusive thoughts about future relationships.

10. Raise your vibration

By being present, fully committed, and happy with yourself, you will raise your vibration which will help summon your soulmate. The universe knows when your vibration is low and tends to present you with similar potential mates. Having a high vibration is vital to meeting others on the same wavelength.

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Manifesting your soulmate is a journey of self-discovery, intention, and alignment with the universe. By applying these ten secrets, you can attract the love you desire and deserve.

1. Clarify Your Intentions

Be clear about what you want in a soulmate. Write down the qualities, values, and traits that are important to you. This clarity sends a strong message to the universe about your desires.

2. Believe in the Possibility

Cultivate a strong belief that your soulmate is out there and that you are deserving of love. Doubt can create energetic blocks, so maintain a positive mindset and trust the process.

3. Visualize Your Ideal Relationship

Spend time each day visualizing your life with your soulmate. Imagine the feelings, experiences, and joy that this relationship will bring. Visualization helps to align your energy with your desires.

4. Practice Self-Love

Love yourself first. Engage in activities that make you feel happy, confident, and fulfilled. Self-love raises your vibration and attracts partners who will love and respect you equally.

5. Let Go of Past Hurts

Release any lingering pain or resentment from past relationships. Holding onto negative emotions can block the flow of new love. Forgiveness and letting go open the space for your soulmate to enter your life.

6. Create Space for Your Soulmate

Make physical and emotional space in your life for your future partner. This could mean decluttering your living space or creating emotional readiness by resolving personal issues.

7. Stay Open and Receptive

Be open to meeting new people and experiencing new things. Sometimes, love comes from unexpected places. Stay receptive and curious about the possibilities.

8. Use Affirmations

Incorporate positive affirmations into your daily routine. Phrases like “I am attracting my soulmate” or “I am worthy of love” help to reinforce your intentions and keep your energy aligned.

9. Trust Divine Timing

Understand that the universe has its own timing. Trust that everything is unfolding as it should and that your soulmate will appear when the time is right. Patience is key in the manifestation process.

10. Take Inspired Action

While it’s important to trust the universe, you also need to take action. This could mean joining social groups, trying online dating, or simply putting yourself out there. Inspired actions align with your intentions and help bring your soulmate closer.

By integrating these secrets into your life, you can effectively manifest your soulmate. Remember, the journey is as important as the destination. Stay positive, open, and aligned with your true desires, and love will find its way to you.


Tania Gabrielle is an astrologer, numerologist, and psychic. She is the creator of Numerology Academy - the first online certification course in Astro-Numerology. The course has been taught to thousands of students across 37 countries.

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