Sex is one of the most essential elements in an effective relationship. Knowing what each person likes to live in bed is fundamental for the couple’s sexual satisfaction. Numerology can help you discover how each person behaves in moments of intimacy, as well as their preferences when making love.

However, when we talk about sex, it is essential to take into consideration each person’s moment of life, age, partner, and even the experiences lived in this area of life. If a person is very young or has issues to work on in sexuality, for example, they may not yet have let their way of living sexual intercourse emerge.

Usually, the numbers in the Existential Lessons on the Map of Love have a strong influence on how to have sex. Still, there is a symbology that sometimes gains more excellent evidence when the subject is sexual behavior: the Number of Expression.

Those who have this Number in Expression usually have the most affirmed sexuality and sexual desire. He likely likes to take the initiative in the conquest, besides wanting to occupy a position of control in bed.

People with this symbolism are also stimulated by a climate of competition and struggle since they don’t like the other to submit to their advances and proposals simply.

They still tend not to like routine since they prefer to have sex in different places, varying environments, or even experimenting in positions considered unconventional.

You like to live in a more seductive atmosphere before arriving at “H time.” You prefer to be subtly led by the other person or that they strategically lead the partner to the climax. The gradual increase of desire, following the preliminaries, attracts you considerably.

Those who have this symbolism in Expression can also enjoy using their hands during sex, through touching and contacting the other person’s body, always with great affection. On the other hand, they may not like it when the other half insists on having sex.

Here is a person who has strong sexual desires. He likes the intense and full of emotions at the time of sex. He loves to listen when the other person praises him or simply expresses the pleasure he is feeling. The conversation during the sexual act, with each one talking about what they like and what they want the other to do to bring them an even greater boner, also attracts them.

You still tend to appreciate good humor in bed, laughing and making your partner laugh. Scenes of jealousy and demonstrations of possessiveness of the other bring an emotional charge and extra drama to sex life, which usually pleases those who have 3 in Expression.

Such a person needs to feel safe next to someone so that they can better enjoy the sexual experience. They do not like adventure and uncertainties. Therefore, they usually perform better in bed when there is already a stable bond with their partner. He appreciates considerably the touches, feeling the physical presence of the other person’s body and the feeling of support he gets in the intimate exchange.

Who has Expression Number 4 may like to apply or receive massages, because this person needs practical demonstrations of affection and desire. This kind of involvement with the partner helps to diminish specific resistances and inhibitions in bed since its accentuated rational side can make you overthink and disturb the necessary relaxation for sexual enjoyment.

This person tends to go through oscillations. Now, sexual desire is at a thousand per hour, and at another moment, it can become something routine and even monotonous. If there is no variation in positions, environments, and programs involving sex, these ups and downs can hurt the partner’s hard-on. You also feel very comfortable in bed with someone who has an intellectual affinity.

If there is admiration for the partner’s knowledge and there is an exchange of ideas between the couple, even better the more horny they feel. Conversations during the sexual act, with the couple saying how much they feel stimulated by those who have the 5 in Expression, gives an extra gas in the “H hour.”

There is an extreme romanticism in this person. She needs to feel visibly loved and protected by her partner. After all, the climate of emotional security and union between her and her partner generates sexual stimulation. Because if there are many fights, disharmony, and the feeling that she is not admired by the other, the person who has 6 in Expression will not feel comfortable enjoying the sexual moments.

A sincere bond of friendship must also occur, in addition to affectionate attitudes on the part of the other, such as flowers, wine, and very charming dinners. Another need is to be clean, to feel good about the environment, the appearance and even the smell of the partner.

Here is a person who may seem shy in sex but who surprises in moments of intimacy because their sexual intensity and depth are captivating and generate in the partner a very pleasurable sensation. Because the surrender of body and soul at the time of sex is one of his strong points.

Of course, in order to reach this level of openness to the other, one must overcome a high level of distrust and the fear of being betrayed or abandoned if one becomes sexually involved. It would help if you had an intellectual, religious, or philosophical affinity with your partner to be more comfortable in bed.

Domination-submission games can be an extra attraction for that person in bed. Although she is very controlling in daily life, when it comes to sex, she can privilege a more submissive role and likes to be directed by the other.

You also need to feel supported by your partner in a safe, stable and firm relationship to enjoy sex with more lightness and less seriousness. At another extreme, you may like to be the provider of the relationship because it gives you more self-esteem and self-confidence in the sexual experience.

The person who has the 9 in Expression has a celibate side and can very well avoid sex for a long time, either by ideology, involvement with social/philanthropic causes, or simply to develop detachment. But when one overcomes barriers and gives oneself sexual, one likes to devote oneself much more to pleasuring the other than receiving it.

It seeks to please the partner’s body and soul, doing what they like and even occupying a more humble and helpful position in the sexual exchange. At certain times, you may feel attracted to tantric sex or other sexual modalities considered more sacred. In other words, this person tends to see the sexual experience as a ritual that deserves proper preparation and an inspired attitude.

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Numerology, the study of numbers and their mystical significance, can offer intriguing insights into various aspects of life, including your sexual personality and compatibility. By understanding your Sex Numerology, you can gain a deeper understanding of your intimate desires, tendencies, and how you connect with others on a sexual level. Here’s a step-by-step guide to calculating your Sex Numerology.

Step 1: Calculate Your Life Path Number

The Life Path Number is the cornerstone of numerology, representing your core traits and life purpose. To calculate it, follow these steps:

  1. Write down your full birth date (e.g., July 19, 1985).
  2. Break it down into individual digits: 7 (July) + 1 + 9 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 5.
  3. Add these digits together: 7 + 1 + 9 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 5 = 40.
  4. Reduce the sum to a single digit by adding the digits together: 4 + 0 = 4.

In this example, the Life Path Number is 4.

Step 2: Identify Your Sexual Numerology Number

While the Life Path Number offers a broad understanding of your personality, the Sexual Numerology Number focuses specifically on your sexual characteristics. To find this number, consider your birth day:

  1. Take the day of the month you were born. If your birth date is a single digit (1-9), that’s your number.
  2. If your birth date is a double digit (10-31), reduce it to a single digit by adding the digits together. For example, if you were born on the 19th, you would add 1 + 9 = 10, and then 1 + 0 = 1.

Step 3: Interpret Your Sexual Numerology Number

Each number from 1 to 9 has a distinct sexual personality. Here’s a brief overview:

  • 1: Independent and assertive, you know what you want and aren’t afraid to take the lead.
  • 2: Sensitive and romantic, you value emotional connection and intimacy.
  • 3: Playful and adventurous, you enjoy experimenting and keeping things exciting.
  • 4: Reliable and steady, you appreciate routine and a strong foundation in relationships.
  • 5: Dynamic and freedom-loving, you thrive on variety and spontaneity.
  • 6: Nurturing and harmonious, you seek balance and deep connections in your love life.
  • 7: Introspective and spiritual, you value a deep, meaningful bond with your partner.
  • 8: Ambitious and powerful, you approach intimacy with intensity and passion.
  • 9: Compassionate and idealistic, you seek to merge love and spirituality in your sexual experiences.

Step 4: Assess Compatibility

Understanding your partner’s Sexual Numerology Number can enhance compatibility. Compare your numbers to identify strengths and areas of potential growth. For example, a 3 and a 5 might enjoy a vibrant, adventurous sex life, while a 2 and a 6 could form a deeply emotional and nurturing bond.


By calculating and understanding your Sex Numerology Number, you can gain valuable insights into your sexual nature and improve intimacy in your relationships. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this knowledge can help you connect more deeply with yourself and others, leading to a more fulfilling and harmonious love life.


Tania Gabrielle is an astrologer, numerologist, and psychic. She is the creator of Numerology Academy - the first online certification course in Astro-Numerology. The course has been taught to thousands of students across 37 countries.

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