Sex is one of the most important elements in an effective relationship. And knowing what each person likes to live in bed is fundamental for the couple’s sexual satisfaction. Numerology can help you discover how each person behaves in moments of intimacy, as well as the preferences when making love.
However, when we talk about sex it is important to take into consideration each person’s moment of life, age, partner and even the experiences lived in this area of life. If a person is very young or has issues to work on in sexuality, for example, they may not yet have let their way of living sexual intercourse emerge.
Usually, the numbers in the Existential Lessons on the Map of Love have a strong influence on how to have sex, but there is a symbology that sometimes gains greater evidence when the subject is sexual behavior: the Number of Expression.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 1
Those who have this Number in Expression usually have the most affirmed sexuality and sexual desire. It is likely that he likes to take the initiative in the conquest, besides wanting to occupy a position of control in bed.
People with this symbolism are also stimulated by a climate of competition and struggle, since they don’t like the other to simply submit to his or her advances and proposals.
They still tend not to like routine, since they prefer to have sex in different places, varying environments, or even experimenting in positions considered unconventional.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 2
You like to live in a more seductive atmosphere before arriving at “H time”. You prefer to be subtly led by the other person or that she or he strategically leads the partner to the climax. The gradual increase of desire, following the preliminaries, attracts you considerably.
Those who have this symbolism in Expression can also enjoy using their hands during sex, through touching and contacting the other person’s body, always with great affection. On the other hand, they may not like it when the other half insists on having sex.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 3
Here is a person who has strong sexual desires. He likes the intense and full of emotions at the time of sex. He loves to listen when the other person praises him or simply expresses the pleasure he is feeling. The conversation during the sexual act, with each one talking about what they like and what they want the other to do to bring them an even greater boner, also attracts them.
You still tend to appreciate the good humor in bed, laughing and making the partner laugh. Scenes of jealousy and demonstrations of possessiveness of the other bring an emotional charge and an extra dramaticity in sex life, which usually pleases those who have 3 in Expression.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 4
Such a person needs to feel safe next to someone so that he or she can better enjoy the sexual experience. They do not like adventure and uncertainties. Therefore, they usually perform better in bed when there is already a stable bond with their partner. He appreciates considerably the touches, feeling the physical presence of the other person’s body and the feeling of support he gets in the intimate exchange.
Who has Expression Number 4 may like to apply or receive massages, because this person needs practical demonstrations of affection and desire. This kind of involvement with the partner helps to diminish certain resistances and inhibitions in bed, since its accentuated rational side can make you think too much and disturb the necessary relaxation for sexual enjoyment.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 5
This person tends to go through oscillations. Now the sexual desire is at a thousand per hour and at another moment it can become something routine and even monotonous. If there is no variation in positions, environments, and programs involving sex, these ups and downs can hurt the partner’s hard-on. You also feel very comfortable in bed with someone who has an intellectual affinity.
If there is admiration for the partner’s knowledge and there is an exchange of ideas between the couple, even better, the more horny they feel. Conversations during the sexual act, with the couple saying how much they feel stimulated by those who have the 5 in Expression, gives an extra gas in the “H hour”.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 6
There is a very strong romanticism in this person. She needs to feel visibly loved and protected by her partner. After all, the climate of emotional security and union between her and her partner generates sexual stimulation. Because if there are many fights, disharmony, and the feeling that she is not admired by the other, the person who has 6 in Expression will not feel comfortable enjoying the sexual moments.
A sincere bond of friendship must also occur, in addition to affectionate attitudes on the part of the other, such as flowers, wine and very charming dinners. Another need is to be clean, to feel good about the environment, the appearance and even the smell of the partner.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 7
Here is a person who may seem shy in sex, but who surprises in moments of intimacy. Because their sexual intensity and depth are captivating and generate in the partner a very pleasurable sensation. Because the surrender of body and soul at the time of sex is one of his strong points.
Of course, in order to reach this level of openness to the other, one must overcome a high level of distrust and the fear of being betrayed or abandoned if one becomes sexually involved. You need intellectual, religious or philosophical affinity with your partner to be more comfortable in bed.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 8
Domination-submission games can be an extra attraction for that person in bed. Although she is very controlling in daily life, when it comes to sex she can privilege a more submissive role and like to be directed by the other.
You also need to feel supported by your partner, in a safe, stable and firm relationship to enjoy sex with more lightness and less seriousness. At another extreme, you may like to be the provider of the relationship, because it gives you more self-esteem and self-confidence in the sexual experience.
EXPRESSION NUMBER 9
The person who has the 9 in Expression has a celibate side and can very well avoid sex for a long time, either by ideology, involvement with social/philanthropic causes or simply to develop detachment. But when one overcomes barriers and gives oneself sexually, one likes to devote oneself much more to giving pleasure to the other than receiving it.
It seeks to please the partner’s body and soul, doing what he/she likes and even occupying a more servile and helpful position in the sexual exchange. At certain times, you may feel attracted to tantric sex or other sexual modalities considered more sacred. In other words, this person tends to see the sexual experience as a ritual that deserves proper preparation and an inspired attitude.